Neurodivergent work coaching for individuals and employers
One-to-one coaching, paid via Access to Work, privately or through an employer. Coaching helps people get unstuck and manage work and life with more ease.
[ ADHD/ASD/ACCESS TO WORK ]
Neuro-affirmative work coaching for ADHD, autistic and neurodivergent brains
Coaching that works with your brain, not against it.
One-to-one work coaching for neurodivergent adults - paid for privately, through your employer or with Access to Work.
You'll have space to untangle what feels stuck, try out strategies that fit how you think and find more ease in your working week.
Whether you have a diagnosis or you're still wondering, the coaching starts with you, not a label.
Not sure where to start? That's completely normal.
>> Book a quick call and we'll see if I'm the right fit.
Supporting a neurodivergent employee or team?
>> Book a call, and I'll happily share the patterns I'm noticing across workplaces, along with some thoughts on how you could support your team.
[ COACHING SERVICES ]
Which of these sounds most like you?
Private Coaching
Youโre a business owner or individual looking for a specialised coach and paying for your own work coaching. Youโre likely looking for support and strategies around executive function, accountability, focus, rejection sensitivity (RSD), time management and more. Find out how I can support you, from coaching packages to lighter-touch accountability support.
Employer-paid Coaching
Youโre an employer or HR lead arranging one-to-one coaching for a member of staff, paid for by your organisation. Find out how my coaching supports employees and the benefits of work coaching for talent progression and retention.
Access to Work Coaching
Youโve been awarded a number of hours with a coach (sometimes called Strategy Sessions) through Access to Work or you need a quote for your application. Youโre looking for an ADHD or neurodivergent coach to work with (possibly because the list in your confirmation letter either felt overwhelming or underwhelming!). Find out how I work and take the next step towards securing your hours with me.
Disability Awareness Training
Youโre looking for disability awareness training for your team or organisation. Perhaps youโve been awarded funding through the Access to Work scheme or have an approved budget in place. While I offer one-to-one coaching directly, group training is delivered by AJT Liminal, the company I co-founded. Our qualified team there will support you with a range of disability awareness training and support packages to suit your funding or budget.
โVictoria has the unique skill of explaining ways clearly and simply so that my busy neurodivergent mind can focus and take action.โ
โ Dr Emma Langman
[ VICTORIA TRETIS ]
More about me
When looking for a neuro-affirmative coach with neurodivergent ADHD and ASD coaching experience, clients tell me thereโs overwhelming numbers of potential people to work with. In an unregulated industry where anyone can call themselves a coach, you need to be sure youโre choosing the right coach for you.
Iโm proud to say that Iโm a trained and ICF ACC-credentialed coach with more than 800 hours of experience. I've also completed additional CPD in neuroscience and ADHD coaching.
And as impressive as that is, I want to make one thing really clear: Iโm a human just like you. Iโm a mum, coffee lover, introvert, and a deep thinker. Iโm also an HSP (highly sensitive person), so I know how much rejection can sting.
I wonโt simply say what you want to hear.
Iโm here to ask thoughtful questions and coach you, and we attend those sessions as equals. Two adults having a conversation. Sessions are always centred on you wanting to better understand yourself and others. This is not therapy. But that doesnโt mean it will always feel easy either. Some questions will stretch your thinking.
I am an LGBTQ+ ally, committed to creating a safe and inclusive space for individuals of all backgrounds and identities. Read my Ethics Statement to see whatโs important to me and decide if weโre aligned before we book any discovery call.
How my coaching works
[ THE PROCESS ]
STEP 1
Choose how youโd like to work with me
Private Work Coaching (usually self-employed).
Disability awareness training (through AJT Liminal)
STEP 2
Book a discovery call
Book a discovery call so we can decide which option suits you best, whether itโs a 6 or 12-session package. Or one of my lighter-touch Voxer support options. The call is a chance for me to find out more about you or your employee, NOT for me to sell to you.
Iโll never ask anyone to make a decision while on the call. Thatโs just not my style. Instead, I want you to leave the call feeling fully informed and able to make your decision with zero pressure. I follow up after the call with a recap of what we discussed and an email proposal that you can accept (or ignore!).
STEP 3
Book your package
Depending on the coaching package you choose, youโll book your sessions and pay your first invoice. If you need to change or move a call, I just ask for 48 hoursโ notice. Weโll agree a goal to work towards.
And as we progress, weโll decide on the next steps. 6 or 12 sessions may be enough to reach your or your employeeโs goals. If something else crops up, and youโd like to continue, we can just book another block of coaching sessions. We can adapt as we work together. Everyoneโs journey is unique.
FAQs
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A neurodivergent coach is a specialist who supports neurodivergent people. This could be people with ADHD, dyslexia, autism, and other forms of neurodivergence.
A neurodivergent coach knows that a โone-size-fits-allโ approach doesnโt actually fit all. Instead, they aim to understand any challenges and help identify skills and strategies that support your life. Many of the clients I work with are also navigating chronic fatigue, fibromyalgia, perimenopause, or other overlapping conditions - so we always factor those elements into the strategies we build. Itโs never only about the neurodivergent side.
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A specialised neurodivergent coach looks at whatโs already working well, what isnโt and whatโs missing in terms of strategies and work rhythms.
Often, clients find it helpful to use our sessions to focus on career goals, organisation, focus, executive functioning, setting boundaries or communication in the workplace. Many find that, with the right strategies, they manage the demands of work and everyday life with far more ease, while working towards something specific, whether that's a promotion, a career change, or simply feeling less depleted by the end of each day.
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With me, no. But if youโre looking around, ask the question. Some people that I work with have only just started exploring and identify as neurodivergent; some choose never to get diagnosed, and some are on waiting lists that are years long. However you identify, or don't yet - the coaching starts with you, not a label.
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No - not at all. ADHD is very common among my clients, and neurodivergent profiles often overlap. I like to think of it this way. A diagnosis gives you a place to start, but the destination is very different for everyone depending on their lived experiences and other intersections such as race and gender. So, we look at you as an individual. Working me means you receive neuroaffirmative sessions โ youโll never be gaslit or have your experiences dismissed. My promise is that sessions are tailored around you, not any label.
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Unlike therapy, coaching focuses on exploring solutions and building forward momentum.
Together we'll find those solutions by looking at what your goals are, and the patterns and experiences that are stopping you from reaching them. This is action-focused - between sessions, you'll be trying things out and putting changes into practice. If you're looking for space to reflect without making changes, this isn't the right fit. We're collaborative - I don't tell you what to do, but I won't leave you stuck either. With your permission, I'll share what's worked for other clients so you've got real options to choose from - to perhaps consider, set aside , or experiment with between sessions.
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Yes. All coaching sessions take place online, making them accessible from wherever youโre based. We can run sessions with the camera on or off, on the move if you fancy a walk โ wherever you feel most comfortable. Iโm usually sat at my desk or downstairs with the dogs (a tail might make an appearance - consider yourself warned ๐พ ).
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There isnโt a set number that works for everyone. It depends on your goals and whether your sessions are paid for privately or provided through a scheme such as Access to Work. Privately funded sessions come in blocks of 6.
Weโll agree this before sessions start, in line with your budget or Access to Work award, so you know exactly what to expect and when.
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